Love is ...it salvation or destruction?

Love is
What exactly is love? How can you describe the feeling if losing yourself and the willingness to give a part of yourself to another? Without asking anything in return? Some say begin in love, can be described as having butterflies in you’re stomach. Some say the urge to protect someone close to you, yet why does it also bring pain and hurt?

Begin in love is also like a double edge sword, the blunt part is what we can say the “happiness” part of love and the sharp part can be “the pain and hardship “we feel is when we feel betrayed and left behind . I have seen a lot of people suffer because of love, but some also emerge victorious, happy and content with the person they spend their life with.

Unconditional love is what we can say the ultimate type of love, examples like the love Jesus has for us, to willingly give up his life for us to be saved. It can also be described as loving a person regardless of their past. But why is it always complicated? I mean even in anime, love is complex. A fine example would be team 7, I mean look at Hinata who admires and loves Naruto , but isn’t noticed by him . Naruto who loves Sakura, who is in love with Sasuke?

Sometimes I wonder, how can a person love someone, who might never acknowledge their feelings? People who will never treasure how they feel. There are people who consider us important to them, but we don’t always see the value of these people in our lives.

Other people love us, yet we are in love with another, I find this fact a little unfair. Wouldn’t it be easier to live in a world in which people are in love with those, who can return their feelings? Instead of people who are in love with another and will not return their feelings?

But how do you know if you are falling in love for the wrong reason? Is there even a wrong reason? Hmm, maybe the quote “love is blind” can apply .Because when people fall in love, they leave themselves valuable to the other, they are what we can say “exposed” to whatever will happen. Because of love, they let their defenses down making them defenseless.

I want to love like them; I want to love someone as fierce as a lioness fighting for her children. I want to be loved, for who I am and not for someone else. I want to love, without changing myself. I don’t want to change just because no one will love me, because I am me.

Love is like trust, you have to earn it and let a relationship grow with strong communication and bonding.

God bless and have a great day